We had another talk about sex, this time I think it went much better.
She had gotten a book about sex (forgot the name, basic “sex advice” type of thing) and we started talking about what types of things might be OK vs. No Way.
Probably OK list includes: regular p/v sex (might be touch and go due to not being aroused), touching firm enough to not tickle, massage, snuggling, kissing.
No Way list includes: touching the breasts, any tickling, and breathing warm air into or around her nose.
I suggested that we set aside some time on Saturday to just lie together, maybe holding hands, maybe snuggling, nothing more, and she said that she was OK to try that and see how it goes.
Anyway, wish us luck!